material on sex education but lack of
access to whatever was available along
with lack of preparation on the patt of
teachers.
Initiating the second session on
"Experience Sharing of Voluntary
Organisations
on Sensitising
Adolescents on Human Reproductive
Health", Dr K Srinivasan said a sort
of homogenisation of culture had taken
place among the adolescents. "Whether
you go to India, Japan or USA, a village
or a city, you find the young people
wearing jeans and listening to pop
music".
He thought the Government could
not play much of a role in educating
adolescents because the subject was
culture specific,area specificand region
specific.
Dr K K Varma of Parivar Seva
Sanstha said reproductive health needs
of adolescents were yet to get the
focused attention and there was a need
for more NGOs to take up this work.
Dr Jai Pal Tarang from Family
Planning Association of India drew
attention towards the need for having
training material in local languages
which should also be culturally
sensitive.
Dr Y P Gupta from CARE INDIA
mentioned their project for adolescent
girls in 143slums in Jabalpur in Madhya
Pradesh which catered to approximately
32,000 married and unmarried
adolescent girls. Besides, 33,000
adolescent boys and 13,000 husbands
of married adolescent girls and their
parents were secondary beneficiaries.
The adolescent girls were trained by
Adolescent Girl Health Guides who
were identified and oriented on issues
relating to adolescent health.
The third session of the seminar on
"Perception of Adolescents Regarding
Human Sexuality" was chaired by Mr
Peter MacAllister of CARE INDIA who
said the changes which had taken place
within one generation in India, had
taken two or three generations in the
western world.
Ignorance about sex
TARSHI's (Talking About
Reproductive and SexualHealth Issues)
representative,
Shalini, in her
presentation said her organisation ran
two telephone Helplines in Delhi to
give information, counselling and
referrals on reproductive and sexual
health issues. Out of the calls TARSHI
received, 43 per cent people asked for
basic sex information, like bodily
process, the penile size, breast size,
nocturnal emission, masturbation,
homosexuality, etc. Most of the queries,
whether about male body or female
body, were made more by male
adolescents than female adolescents.
Young women asked mostly about
menstrual problems. Men asked about
sexual problems like impotence,
premature ejaculation while women
asked about conception and
contraception. The maximum number
of males asked about masturbation and
loss of semen. Boysand girls were very
scared of what the partner's reaction
would be. Boys thought they might
not know enough at the time of having
sex and might look foolish whereas
girls thought that they might be accused
of knowing too much. For girls,
virginity was still important. Shalini
revealed that a number of 17, 18 year
old boys had at least one sexual
penetrative experience before marriage
through a commercial sex worker, a
neighbourhood aunty or a girl friend.
Dr Jaya Sharma from CAREINDIA
mentioned a poll that they had
conducted at Jabalpur among adolescent
girls where they found out that friends
were the most common source of
information about sex. Mothers and
female relatives were also consulted.
However, students did not go to their
teachers for such information.
On the question ofwhether marriage
should be arranged by parents, 60 per
cent students responded 'Yes' and 39
per cent said 'No'. Opinion was
divided equally on whether knowledge
of sex would encourage
experimentation. Majorityof girls (69%)
thought men were more 'sexual' than
women. Dr Sharma said some of the
lessons that they had learnt from their
Jabalpur Project were that there was a
need to provide appropriate information
on issues related to human sexuality
and that in order to reach out to
adolescents, one had not only to gain
their confidence but trust of the parents
as well.
Dr SanjayChugh, Consulting Neuro
Psychiatrist, Appolo Hospital who also
answers questions pertaining to sex in
newspapers said masturbation was the
one issue which bothered adolescents,
both boys and girls universally and
which was most misunderstood.
Virginity was not so important any
more in the Indian society and there
were many teenage girls who had had
pre-marital sex. He has discovered
casual sex encounters were increasing
with increased use of alcohol and drugs,
speciallyat late night parties. Adolescent
pregnancies had increased. He said
media provided sexual stimulation
through titillation though there was no
avenue for adolescents to seek
gratification. /I Adolescents think if they
love someone, it is okay to have sex
with that person".
Dr Chugh said there was a lot of
ignorance about sex and sexuality
among the adolescents whose
knowledge of family planning methods
was very limited. He said sexual
experimentation and use of
pornographic films had increased. Dr
Chugh also said homosexuality had
come out in the open though it was a
taboo earlier.
Disputing some of the statements
of Dr Chugh, Ms Rami Chhabra said
that what he talked was relevant only
to a segment of society which had a
different life style and which was
exposed to the media. It would not be
safe to generalise, she said.
A doctor running a sexand marriage
counselling clinic at All India Institute
of Medical Sciences disclosed lot of
women coming to the clinic said 'incest'
was their problem. The father, uncle
or brother wanted to have sex with the
daughter, niece or cousin.